I have a 17-year-old Newfoundland-Lab mix, Bear. His health is going downhill, and he is on pain medication and glucosamine. In addition, his back legs are wobbly and he falls over when they give out.
Bear has so much heart that I am afraid he will not show us when he is in real pain. He means the whole world to our family, especially me. I have been asking Jesus for a sign and looking for a sign from Bear that he is ready to go to heaven. How do I really know when to euthanize him? I don’t want him to suffer.
– Wolf, ASPCA Guardian
Wolf, your question is the most important one a loving owner can ask himself. I recently heard a vet say to a pet parent: “Your dog is going downhill. Do you want to wait until he gets to the bottom?” This is exactly the right question.
Given Bear’s age and current discomfort and disability, euthanasia now could be considered a blessing for him. It assures that he will not suffer a terminal phase that may involve a medical emergency, such as seizures or severe pain. If you wait too long for a “sign,” you may have to live with the regret that he suffered while you were out of the house or unable to help him.
Euthanasia – Is it time yet?
From Bernard Hershhorn’s book: “Active Years for Your Aging Dog.” as excerpted fromTed Keasote’s book “Merle’s Door.
Six criteria before euthanizing a pet: (Chronological age, in itself, is not one)
1) Is the condition prolonged, recurring, or getting worse?
2) Is the condition no longer responding to therapy?
3) is your pet in pain or otherwise physically suffering?
4) Is it no longer possible to alleviate that pain or suffering?
5) If your pet should recover, is he/she likely to be chronically ill, an invalid, or unable to care for itself as a healthy pet?
6) If your pet recovers, is it no longer to be able to enjoy life, or will it have severe personality changes?
Hershhorn goes on to say that if one’s answers to all six questions is “yes” then it is time to euthanize your pet. If your answers to question 3 and 4 are “no”, then maybe with medication time is still available. However, one must answer three more questions:
1) Can you provide the necessary care?
2) Will such care so interfere with your own life as to create serious problems with you or your family? My own additional input would be to add that if your relationship with your pet is changed or damage by this care then this is also a major consideration.
3) Will the cost involved be beyond your means?
If the answer to these 3 additional questions are 1) “yes” 2) “no” 3) “no” then maybe Hospice care is an alternative for you.
Hospice care is not instead of euthanasia it is an approach that can be used to help you with your pets passing when appropriate. Please let us know if you would like more information or help with this issue.
Dr. Sidorsky and the Mobile Vet of Western Mass is available for gentle home pet euthanasia throughout western Massachusetts including: Springfield, Longmeadow, Holyoke, Chicopee, Northampton, Greenfield, Pittsfield, Athol, Easthampton and other area towns.
Some people find it helpful to make the appointment for euthanasia for a time in the near future, and then spend the days leading to the appointment saying goodbye and doing special things for their pet. When the day comes, you can always cancel the appointment if you change your mind. The challenge you have is to make a clear distinction between your anticipation of loss from Bear’s need to be free of a deteriorating body.
Thank you for your wonderful care for animals in general, and especially for the quality of life you have given your beloved dog.